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Might this be the bigger problem of "bowling alone"? There s fewer and fewer places where small groups or people meet, and 1-to-1 socialization is not the same.
by buboard 7y ago
Might this be the bigger problem of "bowling alone"? There s fewer and fewer places where small groups or people meet, and 1-to-1 socialization is not the same.
- ohithereyou 7y ago>"bowling alone" I don't understand why this phrase itself has such a negative connotation. I bowl alone frequently (three times a week after work), often as a form of personal practice, so I can concentrate on getting better. Doing so has never meant that it was difficult to join a league or find people to socialize with - often by being at the alley I was able to get updates about leagues and clubs starting and I would run into and chat with people (individuals and groups) at the bar or in the lounge. It was a great way to get outside of my CS/STEM bubble in college.
- stenl 7y agoFor those who didn't get the reference, "Bowling alone" refers to an influential 1995 essay and a book by Robert Putnam about the decline of social capital in the United States since 1950: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bowling_Alone https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bowling_Alone.
- lapnitnelav 7y agoI think it goes deeper than that. Can't tell you how many times I've seen people boil down their identity to "I'm a Googler / Xoogler / ..." They go out in the pub around the corner after work with their company badge on display, they leverage having worked at Google in later jobs as if it has blessed them with infinite wisdom and knowledge. It's quite cringe worthy to see people fall into that trap. And yes, it's not every single one of them but not exactly a fringe group either.
- username90 7y agoMaking sure people know that you are an ex Googler is like a busty woman wearing low cut tops, it isn't classy but it works.
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