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I have to say that I feel bad for New Yorkers. I live in the middle of the country, but I work for a company on the lower east-side. I’m often in Manhattan, so

I have to say that I feel bad for New Yorkers. I live in the middle of the country, but I work for a company on the lower east-side. I’m often in Manhattan, so I think I have a feel for what it’s like there and there is such a poverty of what a global city could be there. I’ve seen quite a bit of the world and dense Spanish urban centers are much better than Manhattan. Barcelona has created super blocks, which are these dense areas where absolutely no cars are allowed. The result is nothing short of amazing. The first time I saw it, I realized I had never seen anything like it before. There such an abundance of life and the levity in the air is palpable. “This is what it must have been like to live in an ancient city“ is often what I found myself thinking. Your really need to experience it before you die. It’s what human life should look like. New York ain’t it. Not even close.

dajohnson89 7y ago
Brooklynite here, but I've lived all over the country. We don't need your pity. There might be better examples of what an urban center could be, and some aspects of NYC are definitely a shitshow. But in my not-so-humble opinion -- nowhere else in the states comes close.
- madhadron 7y ago
  > nowhere else in the states comes close. True, but his examples were not from the US, which is reasonable. The USA does cities very poorly. New York has been forced into some true urban functionality by being the biggest city in the US, but that doesn't mean it's a fine model.
- kortilla 7y ago
  Whataboutism isn’t a defense. OP was pointing out that, as an outsider, it’s obvious NYC is lame for the class of city it’s trying to be. You don’t have to be a regular at a restaurant to point out its flaws.
  - moogleii 7y ago
    What was the subject of his alleged whataboutism?
    - kortilla 7y ago
      The rest of the US.
      - dajohnson89 7y ago
        It's not whataboutism. USA is my country, no matter how shitty the cities are. There are reasons both personal and practical for why leaving the country and living in one of your beloved model cities is a non-starter.
- Swizec 7y ago
  > nowhere else in the states comes close SF comes close. After moving to SF from [small city/town] Europe a few years ago I spent a long time thinking about what it is that draws me to SF and why the only other city in USA that I'd even consider is NYC. The answer I came up with was population density combined with population size. You want a big dense population. That creates the economies of scale that make a city feel like a city. For example I've got 2 corner stores, 3 bars, and 2 restaurants on the same block as my apartment building. That just wouldn't make sense if there wasn't enough people around here to support those businesses. If you look at US cities by population density on Wikipedia you'll notice the only places with more than 100,000 people and a density above 10,000 per square mile are San Francisco and New York with some surrounding cities in the greater megalopolis. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_cities_by_population_density#Incorporated_places_with_a_density_of_over_10,000_people_per_square_mile https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_cities_b... Next on the list is Boston. Then Chicago, Philadelphia, and Miami. But those have densities in the low 1X,000/mi^2 whereas SF is at 17,000/mi^2 and NYC a whopping 27,000/mi^2. Without density a city feels like a sprawling suburb.
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  - moogleii 7y ago
    After living in the suburbs of California for quite some time, I would have agreed with you. SF seemed like a metropolis in comparison. But after living in NYC for close to a decade, SF now feels like a large suburb with an attached city center. Imo, density/infrastructure/urban-planning-wise, SF feels most similar to Brooklyn, where cars are still very dominant. Brooklyn alone has a density of 35,000/mi^2, where Manhattan alone is at 69,000. Not knocking on your opinion, just adding my 2 cents. Brooklyn is large, fun, exciting, etc, all the things I’d describe SF as, but I don’t know if I’d call it a metropolis on its own (at least not based on my personal opinion), whereas I would easily describe NYC as so (either defined in its entirety or just Manhattan, which would probably bug the natives).
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- hacknat 7y ago
  I wasn’t comparing New York to any place in the US. It is probably the best American city, but that’s not a high bar.
cylinder 7y ago
Lived in NYC (Manhattan and Brooklyn) five years, experienced highs and lows, started a business, closed one, took a traditional job and contract jobs, so I saw a lot. it's extremely overrated and overhyped. Lots of good, interesting people, but also lots of pretty awful ones (usually from somewhere else). Ultimately, the quality of life is poor and even London is far more livable than New York. Edit: the rapid downvotes show how fragile the egos of New Yorkers are, this was always something I knew... really can't handle being told New York isn't the greatest place in the world!
- o_____________o 7y ago
  > pretty awful [people] (usually from somewhere else). This is a strange assertion. What do you mean by this? Are you regurgitating the standard complaint about (white, midwest) transplants? From what I've seen over the years, most of the hyper-aggressive ding dongs are braying and bleating with thick, native NY/NJ accents.
  - cylinder 7y ago
    No, I'm not. I'm more referring to the money-chaser Type As who come from around the world to hustle there, and yes I'd count NJ as somewhere else, as well as Long Island.
    - moogleii 7y ago
      One of the things I love about NYC is how diverse it is both in people and industry. I don’t really know many finance types (at least assuming they are how they’re stereotyped); my social cross section seems to be tech, education, art, and law, so I guess I managed to miss that part of your experience. Otherwise, my experience has largely been the opposite. I’ve worked with expats from Japan and Europe, and most of them love it here. Most of the Japanese folks actually chose to bypass the West coast entirely, having never been there, and came straight to NYC. One described it as “the future” in terms of diversity. But yeah, it’s a big city, and I see shitty behavior all the time, so I’m not surprised by your experience.
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danceparty 7y ago
Subjective and frankly insane to say. Over 8 million people live in NYC (over 2x the population of the next most populous city in the USA, Los Angeles). NYC is commonly known in western culture as a world capital of culture, finance, and world politics (recall the UN). The population of NYC has grown by over 223,615 since the previous census. I agree with you that other cities around the world (a very large area!) may appeal to your personal sensibilities, but saying you 'feel bad for New Yorkers' is trolling. I Feel Bad for any backwoods country-dweller that thinks they have it better than the hundreds of thousands of people that made the choice to move to one of the (objectively) greatest cities in the world to improve their life. See how that feels? You just attempted to apply that to millions of people. Every densely populated has is faults (Barcelona particularly! Many, as in a substantial voting bloc, residents would prefer you to have never come as a tourist at all.) Pigeonholing the residents of the largest city in the USA to be worthy of your sympathy based on their choice to live there is not constructive, nor rational.
- kortilla 7y ago
  > NYC is commonly known in western culture as a world capital of culture, finance, and world politics Commonly known in NYC maybe. That view is antiquated in the rest of the US. > USA to be worthy of your sympathy based on their choice to live there is not constructive, nor rational. Wow, so sensitive. The pity is not because of their choice. It’s for how the urban planning of NYC has been consistently squandered for 50+ years. You can simultaneously like a city and have pity for its fixable flaws (e.g. homelessness in San Francisco).
  - adamsea 7y ago
    > Commonly known in NYC maybe. That view is antiquated in the rest of the US. Respectfully, I doubt it. People may not _like_ NYC, but ... - Wall Street - Carnegie Hall -MOMA, etc - As the other poster mentioned, the U.N. - Still tons of movies and shows use NYC as the setting for their story - Broadway, and theatre in the US - A huge part of the publishing industry is in NYC - Along with LA, Nashville, and Atlanta, NYC is one of the hearts of the US music industry. And I’m sure there’s plenty I missed that we all could add to the list given a little time. Those all seem like pretty obvious and objective markers identifying NYC as a US, if not world cultural, financial, and political hub.
moogleii 7y ago
I don’t really agree with your opinion (especially as someone that came from the ‘burbs and if your primary experience is the LES, which is a fun area, but one of the grungier areas), but regardless, fwiw, Bloomberg tried to ban cars in Manhattan, but that plan was rejected. People love their cars here, even if they are in the minority. But it’s progressing, slowly. More bike lanes are being built. Broadway is slowly being converted to pedestrian-only piece by piece.

dajohnson89 7y ago

Brooklynite here, but I've lived all over the country. We don't need your pity. There might be better examples of what an urban center could be, and some aspects of NYC are definitely a shitshow. But in my not-so-humble opinion -- nowhere else in the states comes close.

madhadron 7y ago
> nowhere else in the states comes close. True, but his examples were not from the US, which is reasonable. The USA does cities very poorly. New York has been forced into some true urban functionality by being the biggest city in the US, but that doesn't mean it's a fine model.
kortilla 7y ago
Whataboutism isn’t a defense. OP was pointing out that, as an outsider, it’s obvious NYC is lame for the class of city it’s trying to be. You don’t have to be a regular at a restaurant to point out its flaws.
- moogleii 7y ago
  What was the subject of his alleged whataboutism?
  - kortilla 7y ago
    The rest of the US.
    - dajohnson89 7y ago
      It's not whataboutism. USA is my country, no matter how shitty the cities are. There are reasons both personal and practical for why leaving the country and living in one of your beloved model cities is a non-starter.
Swizec 7y ago
> nowhere else in the states comes close SF comes close. After moving to SF from [small city/town] Europe a few years ago I spent a long time thinking about what it is that draws me to SF and why the only other city in USA that I'd even consider is NYC. The answer I came up with was population density combined with population size. You want a big dense population. That creates the economies of scale that make a city feel like a city. For example I've got 2 corner stores, 3 bars, and 2 restaurants on the same block as my apartment building. That just wouldn't make sense if there wasn't enough people around here to support those businesses. If you look at US cities by population density on Wikipedia you'll notice the only places with more than 100,000 people and a density above 10,000 per square mile are San Francisco and New York with some surrounding cities in the greater megalopolis. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_cities_by_population_density#Incorporated_places_with_a_density_of_over_10,000_people_per_square_mile https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_cities_b... Next on the list is Boston. Then Chicago, Philadelphia, and Miami. But those have densities in the low 1X,000/mi^2 whereas SF is at 17,000/mi^2 and NYC a whopping 27,000/mi^2. Without density a city feels like a sprawling suburb.
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- moogleii 7y ago
  After living in the suburbs of California for quite some time, I would have agreed with you. SF seemed like a metropolis in comparison. But after living in NYC for close to a decade, SF now feels like a large suburb with an attached city center. Imo, density/infrastructure/urban-planning-wise, SF feels most similar to Brooklyn, where cars are still very dominant. Brooklyn alone has a density of 35,000/mi^2, where Manhattan alone is at 69,000. Not knocking on your opinion, just adding my 2 cents. Brooklyn is large, fun, exciting, etc, all the things I’d describe SF as, but I don’t know if I’d call it a metropolis on its own (at least not based on my personal opinion), whereas I would easily describe NYC as so (either defined in its entirety or just Manhattan, which would probably bug the natives).
  - Swizec 7y ago
hacknat 7y ago
I wasn’t comparing New York to any place in the US. It is probably the best American city, but that’s not a high bar.

cylinder 7y ago

Lived in NYC (Manhattan and Brooklyn) five years, experienced highs and lows, started a business, closed one, took a traditional job and contract jobs, so I saw a lot. it's extremely overrated and overhyped. Lots of good, interesting people, but also lots of pretty awful ones (usually from somewhere else). Ultimately, the quality of life is poor and even London is far more livable than New York. Edit: the rapid downvotes show how fragile the egos of New Yorkers are, this was always something I knew... really can't handle being told New York isn't the greatest place in the world!

o_____________o 7y ago
> pretty awful [people] (usually from somewhere else). This is a strange assertion. What do you mean by this? Are you regurgitating the standard complaint about (white, midwest) transplants? From what I've seen over the years, most of the hyper-aggressive ding dongs are braying and bleating with thick, native NY/NJ accents.
- cylinder 7y ago
  No, I'm not. I'm more referring to the money-chaser Type As who come from around the world to hustle there, and yes I'd count NJ as somewhere else, as well as Long Island.
  - moogleii 7y ago
    One of the things I love about NYC is how diverse it is both in people and industry. I don’t really know many finance types (at least assuming they are how they’re stereotyped); my social cross section seems to be tech, education, art, and law, so I guess I managed to miss that part of your experience. Otherwise, my experience has largely been the opposite. I’ve worked with expats from Japan and Europe, and most of them love it here. Most of the Japanese folks actually chose to bypass the West coast entirely, having never been there, and came straight to NYC. One described it as “the future” in terms of diversity. But yeah, it’s a big city, and I see shitty behavior all the time, so I’m not surprised by your experience.
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danceparty 7y ago

Subjective and frankly insane to say. Over 8 million people live in NYC (over 2x the population of the next most populous city in the USA, Los Angeles). NYC is commonly known in western culture as a world capital of culture, finance, and world politics (recall the UN). The population of NYC has grown by over 223,615 since the previous census. I agree with you that other cities around the world (a very large area!) may appeal to your personal sensibilities, but saying you 'feel bad for New Yorkers' is trolling. I Feel Bad for any backwoods country-dweller that thinks they have it better than the hundreds of thousands of people that made the choice to move to one of the (objectively) greatest cities in the world to improve their life. See how that feels? You just attempted to apply that to millions of people. Every densely populated has is faults (Barcelona particularly! Many, as in a substantial voting bloc, residents would prefer you to have never come as a tourist at all.) Pigeonholing the residents of the largest city in the USA to be worthy of your sympathy based on their choice to live there is not constructive, nor rational.

kortilla 7y ago
> NYC is commonly known in western culture as a world capital of culture, finance, and world politics Commonly known in NYC maybe. That view is antiquated in the rest of the US. > USA to be worthy of your sympathy based on their choice to live there is not constructive, nor rational. Wow, so sensitive. The pity is not because of their choice. It’s for how the urban planning of NYC has been consistently squandered for 50+ years. You can simultaneously like a city and have pity for its fixable flaws (e.g. homelessness in San Francisco).
- adamsea 7y ago
  > Commonly known in NYC maybe. That view is antiquated in the rest of the US. Respectfully, I doubt it. People may not _like_ NYC, but ... - Wall Street - Carnegie Hall -MOMA, etc - As the other poster mentioned, the U.N. - Still tons of movies and shows use NYC as the setting for their story - Broadway, and theatre in the US - A huge part of the publishing industry is in NYC - Along with LA, Nashville, and Atlanta, NYC is one of the hearts of the US music industry. And I’m sure there’s plenty I missed that we all could add to the list given a little time. Those all seem like pretty obvious and objective markers identifying NYC as a US, if not world cultural, financial, and political hub.

moogleii 7y ago

I don’t really agree with your opinion (especially as someone that came from the ‘burbs and if your primary experience is the LES, which is a fun area, but one of the grungier areas), but regardless, fwiw, Bloomberg tried to ban cars in Manhattan, but that plan was rejected. People love their cars here, even if they are in the minority. But it’s progressing, slowly. More bike lanes are being built. Broadway is slowly being converted to pedestrian-only piece by piece.