Huh!? Mary is testifying for it based on the evidence collected by NyTimes. In general, I am not answering, but questioning - how does one know if they are bei

Huh!? Mary is testifying for it based on the evidence collected by NyTimes. In general, I am not answering, but questioning - how does one know if they are being abused if "that's how sports is, it is hard and coaches are tough?" I am postulating that, in general, a new athlete has no idea if they are being abused or this is the way to become a world-class athlete. I hope you can see the question I am asking (not answering).