I don't know who dhh is or if that's even relevant here, but I will say I thought his comments on Twitter were needlessly inflammatory and designed to assemble

I don't know who dhh is or if that's even relevant here, but I will say I thought his comments on Twitter were needlessly inflammatory and designed to assemble "Twitter warriors" rather than to actually fix the problem or help his wife. Calling the card "fucking sexist" doesn't help this situation and it's likely both he and his wife got credit limits that were far above what they needed. The whole situation could have been done in a classy way and still lead to a resolution for his wife.