It can be valuable for us to find an outlet to experience control, to avoid escalating the fantasy of taking control over other human beings. We're all humans

It can be valuable for us to find an outlet to experience control, to avoid escalating the fantasy of taking control over other human beings. We're all humans and all terrible to each other, but in short bursts sometimes we can anonymously improve the network by not contributing a negative action to experience control. Good on you for not abusing your female acquaintances with trick tattoos or besmirching someone as a prostitute, but it might feel even better to find a way to avoid needing the fantasy altogether. I enjoy pruning wild bushes. It gives me the pause to re-balance whatever is getting to me. I wander through the woods looking for lopsided wild cherry bushes and give them symmetry. It's still sort of a form of chaos but better a wild bush than a person. It's my dumb thing, but there's millions of activities that might be a good fit for anyone. Thanks for your post! Cheers.