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Then you still have an asshole, sociopathic roommate, and you no longer have any leverage on them. A dangerous game. They literally live with you, and are supr
by graeme 7y ago
Then you still have an asshole, sociopathic roommate, and you no longer have any leverage on them. A dangerous game.
They literally live with you, and are supremely immoral.
- shakna 7y ago> When I had had enough and moved out, they wouldn't return my security deposit. None of it would have been safe to do if they were still living with them.
- gmjosack 7y agoThe anecdote was about getting back the security deposit after moving out.
- graeme 7y agoOops, I misread it. Though I think my general argument still stands: the ex roommate knew a lot about OP, and was immoral. As long as OP knew his secret the ex roommate couldn't retaliate. If OP had outed them, they would have further angered the ex roommate and freed the roommate from consequences it they wanted to get revenge on OP.
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- PopeDotNinja 7y agoI was happy to get out of there. It's not like I could have reformed them with a good heart to heart talk. Once I went to do laundry and stepped barefooted into a steaming pile of dog poo their dog had dropped on the laundry room floor. When I complained, instead of apologizing for it, they told me I should have watched where I was walking. My roommate was a genuine asshole, and just getting them out of my life was amazing.
- graeme 7y agoHmm, I seem to have worded my comment poorly? The comment I replied to suggested you should have outed them to their parents while living with them. I was arguing that would have been an insane thing to do, as you would then have had no more leverage, and would have angered an immoral person. I.e. You didn't need to do anything more than you did.
- PopeDotNinja 7y agoAh, yes. I agree with this.