> What would you say instead when a server refills your glass, to avoid the otherwise implicit rudeness? I've started memorizing Thank You in various languages

> What would you say instead when a server refills your glass, to avoid the otherwise implicit rudeness? I've started memorizing Thank You in various languages. I now almost always use a non-English thank you with a smile to indicate. And every once in a while, the server lights up if it was their native language or home country.