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This direct approach sounds really good, but seems dependent on having a certain personality to pull off without sounding aggressive. For those with low EQ, a s
by stevens32 7y ago
This direct approach sounds really good, but seems dependent on having a certain personality to pull off without sounding aggressive. For those with low EQ, a shit sandwich is just easier to execute.
- zbentley 7y agoThen fix the low EQ, aka "not good at working with others". That's not the person beibg reviewed's fault.
- asdfman123 7y agoIt's not a personality. It's just posture. Just relax your body, and speak softly. It's actually quite simple. Relax, speak softly, literally just avoid the word "you" (it makes a difference), avoid loaded words. Be direct and be kind. That's it. I can't be convinced that software engineers, who can learn incredible amounts of technical details in a limited amount of time, can't learn that too. It's just a habit. Difficult to form, maybe, but good once you form it.