It's always fascinating to me how two people can read the same words and come to two polar opposite conclusions. My read of silveroriole's comment is that the

It's always fascinating to me how two people can read the same words and come to two polar opposite conclusions. My read of silveroriole's comment is that the commenter is a woman lamenting the fact that women are in the position of "politeness enforcer" far more often than men, and this causes people to treat her differently (i.e., like the "fun police") because they assume she is aligned with that world view.