It's a definitional problem. Building lasting relationships takes time because it's only after a long time that it will be considered "lasting." The question

It's a definitional problem. Building lasting relationships takes time because it's only after a long time that it will be considered "lasting." The question is: how quickly and how can you tell if a relationship will be lasting? What are the signs? What if its just a numbers game? Meet enough people. Some of them will last. That said I'm "too trusting." I get burned all the time. Taken advantage of. I have a scarcity of natural love in my life and thus an abundance to give. Makes me a target for the narcissists. Those who do love me think I'm brave for loving so freely -- everyone. Even those who hurt me. They know it's driven by a deeply personal isolation within my soul that waters my eyes in this moment. But they can never empathize and am happy for that.