For me, the most important game-changer is to have things set-up in advance. I.e. I have dance-lessons on monday and wednesday evening, and there open dance-ha

For me, the most important game-changer is to have things set-up in advance. I.e. I have dance-lessons on monday and wednesday evening, and there open dance-hall every sunday. Or, I know that every tuesday and thursday there is a boardgame meetup. Previously, when I wanted to meet my friends for a beer or coffe, I would usually start organizing something late afternoon, and realized nobody has time in the evening. Now everybody know that I am free after my dance lessons, so one less thing to argue about :)