That is your problem: You have not taken the time to understand other cultures. You believe they are not being honest but they ARE!! If they can not do the wo

That is your problem: You have not taken the time to understand other cultures. You believe they are not being honest but they ARE!! If they can not do the work, they tell you, but in their own language, not directly but in subtle ways. They are expressing it, and in their mind you understand them, because they are actually saying it. It is just that you are deaf to their language, you are not looking to the nuances, and just ignore those signals they are emitting. Then comes the blaming and the pointing fingers.