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Getting classified as G&T is a joke and severely damaging. All it means is your parents taught you to read a little earlier than most other kids. It's mostly ab
by jacobsenscott 7y ago
Getting classified as G&T is a joke and severely damaging. All it means is your parents taught you to read a little earlier than most other kids. It's mostly about giving your parents and school administrators bragging rights. Everyone calls you a genius for the next 10 or 12 years. You incorporates that as the most important part of your identity. Then people level out. You aren't the best at everything anymore. Some classes actually get hard. You graduate in the top 10%, but not the top 1%. Your core identity shatters. You are smart, but there are lots of smart people and you really aren't that special. Suddenly you are emotionally 10 years behind the people how figured that out in middle school. Hopefully you can pull out of the spiral and live a normal life.
- scintill76 7y agoAgreed. This thread showed me a new level. Top comment: "I was fourth picked for g&t. First and second pick ended up being quite successful, as did the third picked." I don't know if it's normal to know everyone's ranking (one other commenter knew their own rank), but it doesn't sound healthy. Feels like it would compound the problems you mentioned -- not only were you G&T, you were 2nd-best of the G&T... until one day you're barely average, let alone in the top 2.