I think this is a very spot-on comment. If someone's signalling doesn't make sense to you, then it wasn't intended for you. There are groups and sub-groups in

I think this is a very spot-on comment. If someone's signalling doesn't make sense to you, then it wasn't intended for you. There are groups and sub-groups in society and we tune our behaviors to fit into our desired groups. Partly consciously and partly not.