> This has been my problem with cats. They are hit or miss. There's a crucial period between 8 and 12 weeks (IIRC) where if a kitten isn't handled regularly th

> This has been my problem with cats. They are hit or miss. There's a crucial period between 8 and 12 weeks (IIRC) where if a kitten isn't handled regularly they are likely to always be somewhat wary around people. If you want an affectionate cat your best bet is finding a breeder and visiting them to make sure they're treating the kittens well and interacting frequently with them. I've owned or lived with a lot of cats over the years and the difference is very obvious, especially if you're a stranger.