I am not selling anything (maybe some software someday, but that's a different topic). But I think about things like this a lot and have posted many thoughts,

I am not selling anything (maybe some software someday, but that's a different topic). But I think about things like this a lot and have posted many thoughts, over time. I hope you don't mind but this is my best work in this area, so far, over some years. (Truly, we do not need to be alone, or give up. I have been thru many things that ... leave me grateful now. So I hope this can be useful to someone....) There are people who can help, with guidance, and in other ways. One list (many resources): http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854601245.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854601245.html . Another (having the Church as help in life): http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854581807.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854581807.html . Another: extended family. Another (general life lessons and resources found, including overcoming addictions, but much more): http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854592298.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854592298.html . Another (pray): http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854585359.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854585359.html . I have learned by long and much-repeated personal experience (the easy way and the hard way) that prayer makes a huge difference, if we are willing to do our part and be obedient to God when we know what we should be doing: http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854580889.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854580889.html . And how I learned that: http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854587400.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854587400.html . More resources (better than the above stuff): https://providentliving.churchofjesuschrist.org/?lang=eng https://providentliving.churchofjesuschrist.org/?lang=eng Wishing the best for everyone in tough circumstances (which seems to be all of us at one time or another)! (edits: minor fixes, add the providentliving.org url.)