"... That's an archaic attitude towards psychology ... Get real help ..." Archaic but effective. I imagine my repressed Anglo-Celtic ancestry where death & gri

"... That's an archaic attitude towards psychology ... Get real help ..." Archaic but effective. I imagine my repressed Anglo-Celtic ancestry where death & grieving was followed with a "wet-wake" ~ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wake_ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wake_(ceremony) I imagine served them well. Tragic as it is death is also a part of life. While groups of like kin may be devoid of the latest medical advancements they do have advantage of common sense. There is quite a magnitude of difference b/w grief and mental illness quite visible to people you know well. "... What you shouldn't do is take any advice on here. That would be like getting programming advice from a psychologist. I've done a couple years of work with people on hospice, and have done a little with suicide prevention stuff ..." By your own admission I wouldn't take yours either. But I do see your point.