> but why is that burden on me? Because you are always responsible for your own actions. You may face difficult choices and unwanted consequences, but you can

> but why is that burden on me? Because you are always responsible for your own actions. You may face difficult choices and unwanted consequences, but you can't abdicate your responsibility for your actions. Note, I'm not suggesting that in the particular scenario you described that there is an obvious right or wrong action, just that you have to accept the consequences of the whatever you choose to do.