The most helpful answer I can give is: you’d have to start from a neutral position. Which means really giving up on what you believe and being open to the possi

The most helpful answer I can give is: you’d have to start from a neutral position. Which means really giving up on what you believe and being open to the possibility that there is a real difference you haven’t seen yet. From that position you can then try to practice active listening. You’d need to develop a rapport with people—lots of people, both people who see things similarly to you and especially people who see things differently. You’d have to be gentle with other people’s ideas so they feel safe telling you what they really think. After doing that for some time, and ingesting stories from whole populations of people, you would begin to get a sense of the breadth of experiences beyond your own.