This is certainly how I feel, but "damned if you do and damned if you don't" doesn't imply that the level of damnedness is equal. The balance between fettering

This is certainly how I feel, but "damned if you do and damned if you don't" doesn't imply that the level of damnedness is equal. The balance between fettering "malicious" speech/activity and preserving privacy seems to be strongly tilting in the mainstream towards the former recently; "tech platforms have a responsibility to heavily police the content on their systems" is apparently a lot more resonant with most people than "tech platforms should preserve the privacy of their users".