I'm not really following the complaint here. I've been on iOS 13 for a few weeks, but honestly I don't recall that much of a change. Now you can tap anywhere

I'm not really following the complaint here. I've been on iOS 13 for a few weeks, but honestly I don't recall that much of a change. Now you can tap anywhere to more the cursor there. Before you had to do some sort of cursor grab I think. You say "under your finger" but obviously you'd move your finger down or up so you can see where the cursor is going? There's no swiping gesture needed anywhere, not sure what's that about? I do remember it being very annoying to move the cursor before. Now it seems much easier. I'm happy, that's one data point I guess. And yeah, I'm getting older. My father, now 70-something, says he likes it, too.