If you believe the original point was questioning the dictionary definition, I'll leave you to ponder what else they could have been trying to say. Personally,

If you believe the original point was questioning the dictionary definition, I'll leave you to ponder what else they could have been trying to say. Personally, I think grouping all men together isn't constructive a lot of the time. Sexuality and gender attributes aren't binary. Most attributes can be defined on a scale. I think this was the nub of the OP's argument.