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It seems to me the negative consequences are about the same for men and women. Lots of women speak poorly of their exes and get their friend groups turned again

• Spooky23 7y ago
  I mentioned to a group of friends that I had run into a female acquinatance from 20+ years ago, who is now a judge. The reaction: "Lol. She was quite the party girl." Not the reaction that you'd get re: a dude.
  • qaq 7y ago
    ? Why that's a pretty common reaction for a dude too
  • dtwest 7y ago
    Idk, I'd say the same about a party dude turned judge.