I feel like there is no way to do this. I was once very happy when I finally got my own basement email server to work (I tried it off and on for years before of

I feel like there is no way to do this. I was once very happy when I finally got my own basement email server to work (I tried it off and on for years before often giving up), running on Arch. For some time I was the happiest person in the world, I could send emails of >100 mb to my wife, have unlimited storage, unlimited aliases (which can even go to multiple people). I could email my server and make it do things. I was using TLS (whereas me.com and hotmail.com at the time were not!), I was using the internet the way it was intended! But then Outlook.com stopped accepting my emails, they were not even in any spam folders. Several emails later I got a response from someone at MS: We don't know how the filters work, they are black boxes to us. Sorry, try to write emails that don't look like spam... Soon after I gave up on my server. Maybe you can use a third party (paid) smtp forwarding service?