Suffering isn't a competition and you live your own pain. Worse doesn't matter. We should all be there for each other and nobody should be left behind but there

Suffering isn't a competition and you live your own pain. Worse doesn't matter. We should all be there for each other and nobody should be left behind but there are too many selfish people who try and justify that selfishness to make it logical or unavoidable. It's a hard thing to experience when you realize the people and systems and ideas you trusted were lies and that many people live in denial of that for their own mental comforts. It's like a kind finding out there is no Santa Claus x1000.