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The problem is that it often takes a while to look up some information and even small breaks in the conversation leave the other person sitting there twiddling
by Atheros 7y ago
The problem is that it often takes a while to look up some information and even small breaks in the conversation leave the other person sitting there twiddling their thumbs. Often when someone asks a question, they don't care that much about the answer; they're just making conversation and getting to know you as a person: what you know, care about, and how you react to things. A lot of people are bad at recognizing whether the information they looked up is worth killing the conversation for 20 seconds. Often it isn't! If I wanted to know the answer to a simple question I just asked I could look it up myself. But I didn't! I asked you. That is different from your professor example since he presumably knows so much more about the topic, he can help you learn what to look up.
Looking through a photo album together can often spark more conversation and keeps the other person engaged. The same isn't true of a phone.