> even remotely enjoy your life, DO NOT HAVE KIDS > If it's less than 100% (and it usually is) I tell them not to have kids. I need to disagree with your firs

> even remotely enjoy your life, DO NOT HAVE KIDS > If it's less than 100% (and it usually is) I tell them not to have kids. I need to disagree with your first point, I loved my life before kids and I love my life with kids. I think the key is your second point, make sure you're ready.