Thanks for the detailed account. Most of the stuff you mentioned can be totally fixed with a shift of perspective. In fact, as long as you compare with your pee

Thanks for the detailed account. Most of the stuff you mentioned can be totally fixed with a shift of perspective. In fact, as long as you compare with your peers you will feel somewhat unhappy. I'm pretty sure lots of people at FAANGs feel like getting by in comparison to some one else who apparently is better off. There's a lot of people in the world who would kill to have your problems though. As for more practical, you can move to a city with lower CoL, get a job at a FAANG, hire a fulltime nanny (find other couple(s), 2k/month x2 is 48k/year, shouldn't be hard) to take care of the kids at someone's place.