I agree that's the real question! And its answer is informed by the original question. I don't and can't know what the right answer is. But I hope that if you

I agree that's the real question! And its answer is informed by the original question. I don't and can't know what the right answer is. But I hope that if you are faced with this decision or any similar decision, you try to get perspectives of the adults who have lived with whatever diagnosis is at play, like the commentors here. Medical professionals are familiar with only a slice of these things. And the media and the "common" understanding also has only limited or distorted information.