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while I appreciate it... i realized that it would never be the same. too much time has pasted, we're both different people now. i'm just happy that they are bot
by thrownaway954 7y ago
while I appreciate it... i realized that it would never be the same. too much time has pasted, we're both different people now. i'm just happy that they are both happy and healthy. divorce doesn't mean you have to hate each other forever.
- maerF0x0 7y agoI didnt mean have your ex back. I meant have someone you appreciate approximately as much, though maybe for different reasons.
- thrownaway954 7y agodude... you find one true love in life. if you haven't been married, you won't know what I mean... and if you are married, then you don't want to find out what I mean.
- koonsolo 7y agoI used to think the same thing, but after my divorce I found a new love. Nobody is perfect, and there are so many women out there. The chance that you had the most "optimal" one is very small. You have what my wife would call a "limiting belief". Believe that you can find an even better match than before, and maybe you will. I'm sure the chance of that happening is higher than you think.
- Broken_Hippo 7y agoOk. So, it's over, and you aren't filled with hate. That's great news! You might miss the people and pets of past still, but surely you can continue to move on and find that you can be happy with other dogs and with other lovers.