Your observation is definitely correct. I took care of my mother until she passed away at 90. When she was young she never relaxed about anything. I think this

Your observation is definitely correct. I took care of my mother until she passed away at 90. When she was young she never relaxed about anything. I think this was because of growing up during the great depression. When she came to live with us she became very sweet and child like in her outlook. I think it was because she trusted us and felt she could relax. I feel sorry for my sisters because they only knew her middle years and never saw the person I saw.