Why is it any more fair for someone's wife to expect him to get his genitals sliced open than for her to take a pill? That's a decision spouses must make. But

Why is it any more fair for someone's wife to expect him to get his genitals sliced open than for her to take a pill? That's a decision spouses must make. But my contention was that it was a broad statistical figure, not that it applied directly to you. The demographics of HN readership are certainly different from the demographics of broader America.