> It isn't just that he is IGNORING the judgement... he is literally not getting any. I think this is more subtle than it looks. A big part of the reason he's

> It isn't just that he is IGNORING the judgement... he is literally not getting any. I think this is more subtle than it looks. A big part of the reason he's not getting any could be because he ignores any similar judgments. You see this all the time everywhere; people have a good intuitive sense of who will cave to social pressure, and go on to exclusively pressure them.