>, it's a balance.. but it's not one that most people can adjust without significant work. Instead of engaging your other points, let me focus on that one I qu

>, it's a balance.. but it's not one that most people can adjust without significant work. Instead of engaging your other points, let me focus on that one I quoted. Does "significant work" mean you agree with the author's idea that we can change our introversion? If so, you're using the term very differently from me and it's not productive for us to even debate it because we're not even on the same page of what introversion _is_. Because I'm saying this: if I go to another social function, and even if I enjoy that social function, that does _not_ make me "less introverted" and I have not become "more balanced".