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> And no, you can't be "a little bit of both". This is absolutely untrue. Extroversion - Introversion is a spectrum and people can exist anywhere along it. F
by caseysoftware 7y ago
> And no, you can't be "a little bit of both".
This is absolutely untrue.
Extroversion - Introversion is a spectrum and people can exist anywhere along it.
From personal experience, I am an introvert. I recharge from time alone or with a very small group of good, close friends and colleagues. Regardless, I was developer evangelist #3 for Twilio (circa 2011-2013) covering literally all of North America at some point where a major part of my job was to speak in front of large groups regularly (spoke at 15+ confs/year, no clue how many user groups) and spend every spare moment trying to understand every person, project, and community I came across. I can thrive and get recharged (much more slowly!) from that too. I've continued similar things at Okta for the last 3 years.
After most of those trips - I found 3 days is my threshold - yes, I need to stop and be back among that small group/alone to recharge. But those quiet times alone are when I came up with the best solutions to the ugliest problems and helped me do my job.. and many others do their own better.
Like anything, it's a balance.. but it's not one that most people can adjust without significant work.
- jasode 7y ago>, it's a balance.. but it's not one that most people can adjust without significant work. Instead of engaging your other points, let me focus on that one I quoted. Does "significant work" mean you agree with the author's idea that we can change our introversion? If so, you're using the term very differently from me and it's not productive for us to even debate it because we're not even on the same page of what introversion _is_. Because I'm saying this: if I go to another social function, and even if I enjoy that social function, that does _not_ make me "less introverted" and I have not become "more balanced".
- caseysoftware 7y agoYes, I'm using it as the author did, not as you've defined. Introvert vs Extrovert is where you draw your energy or what recharges you, not what you enjoy though those things often overlap. It's not a switch, it's a slider. People operate at different points along it and can even shift or operate within a range depending on a variety of things.
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