My ex I lived with for a decade would go on and off the pill mostly to deal with her adult acne in the first few years we were together, in our mid 20s. Every

My ex I lived with for a decade would go on and off the pill mostly to deal with her adult acne in the first few years we were together, in our mid 20s. Every time she got back on it we'd have insane arguments and go through crazy volatile periods where the relationship was crumbling. She'd get off it, and everything would magically stabilize again. Her eventual decision to stay permanently off it was one of the best things that ever happened to our relationship.