Evolve? Or, in more words: When you are experiencing something you'd call "hardship"; first, go slower with yourself; then consider: Are you trying to become n

Evolve? Or, in more words: When you are experiencing something you'd call "hardship"; first, go slower with yourself; then consider: Are you trying to become numb to something unpleasant or painful, or are you in an opportunity to become more than who you once were?