People using NVC makes me bristle. When I think about the people who use NVC on me, I feel negative and distrustful. They are acquaintances, not friends. Pres

People using NVC makes me bristle. When I think about the people who use NVC on me, I feel negative and distrustful. They are acquaintances, not friends. Presenting demands as politely couched questions doesn't change the fact that they are still demands. Where is the effort to make compromise and work together?