I completely agree. Then of course, when I point out that it means that suicide is a totally valid and perhaps good option, people tell me I'm seriously depress

I completely agree. Then of course, when I point out that it means that suicide is a totally valid and perhaps good option, people tell me I'm seriously depressed, not mildly. Maybe there's not such a big difference between the two, mild and debilitating depression, just the amount of energy you're willing to put into living your life.