"would you be willing to only eat the food that you buy?" Is this not indirectly saying: "Stop eating my (or other people's) food"? This can certainly be cons

"would you be willing to only eat the food that you buy?" Is this not indirectly saying: "Stop eating my (or other people's) food"? This can certainly be construed as passive aggressive. Edit: To add, I would prefer the direct approach. I hate the word dancing that goes on with trying to soften the tone. It comes off as patronizing to me.