> Felix, I see that you have once again left your dirty socks on the floor. This is unacceptable to me; we have agreed as roommates to not leave dirty laundry a

> Felix, I see that you have once again left your dirty socks on the floor. This is unacceptable to me; we have agreed as roommates to not leave dirty laundry about the house. I'm not touching your socks; could you imagine having to touch mine? So I'm leaving it to you to pick them up. I'm a fair amount more "violent" than NVC, I guess. But by communicating with my feelings, rather than about my feelings, I can be more effective.