I'm currently using a mix of MonicaHQ[1], Nextcloud[2], and Fastmail[3]. Obviously Fastmail isn't self-hosted, but monicahq/nextcloud are. I find it hard to u

I'm currently using a mix of MonicaHQ[1], Nextcloud[2], and Fastmail[3]. Obviously Fastmail isn't self-hosted, but monicahq/nextcloud are. I find it hard to use a webmail client without also having my contacts available to that mail client. I really want to use MonicaHQ more, but it just feels like a lot of work whenever I log in to it so it gets pretty neglected. My alternative is to store notes about contacts in random spreadsheets, text files, or something like Joplin[4]. On Android, I'm syncing my contacts (and calendars) using davx5[5] with Nextcloud as the server. Nextcloud is already my tool for syncing files, so it having a carddav/caldav server built-in is just a convenient bonus. However, I'm considering moving to EteSync[6] in the near-future for end-to-end encrypted carddav/caldav server. For moving contacts between different accounts, de-duping, and some other maintenance tasks I'm using an android app called "Contacts Optimizer"[7]. I guess I should also mention that this is just for my personal contacts. I do have to use google contacts for my work gsuite account. [1] https://www.monicahq.com/ https://www.monicahq.com/ [2] https://nextcloud.com/ https://nextcloud.com/ [3] https://www.fastmail.com https://www.fastmail.com [4] https://joplinapp.org/ https://joplinapp.org/ [5] https://www.davx5.com/ https://www.davx5.com/ [6] https://www.etesync.com/ https://www.etesync.com/ [7] https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.compelson.optimizer&hl=en_US https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.compelson....