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Maybe just "would you only eat the food that you buy?” I'm not sure I agree it sounds passive aggressive. But couching everything with "would you be willing to

• musicale 7y ago
  Personally I'd greatly prefer something like "Hey Amina, I think you ate my lunch!" (or "did you eat my lunch?" as someone else suggested above) which clarifies the situation at hand and leaves the response open without demanding a specific remedy immediately. You could also ask "hey, do you know what happened to the brown bag that was in the fridge this morning? That was my lunch but now I can't find it." That feels a bit parental maybe, but it also explains what happened and leaves it open-ended "oh, it probably got thrown out when we cleaned the fridge" or, "oh I totally thought that was a leftover sandwich from the meeting so I ate it" or whatever.