After I upgraded Reminders on iOS, my items disappeared but luckily re-appeared after a couple of days. Still a terrible user experience. What is worse: Since

After I upgraded Reminders on iOS, my items disappeared but luckily re-appeared after a couple of days. Still a terrible user experience. What is worse: Since I upgraded Reminders on iOS 13, I cannot see my Reminders items on macOS 10.14. The warning before the upgrade on iOS 13 said I need to upgrade all software, including macOS, for Reminders to work. I didn’t follow the release announcements and thought Apple also released macOS Catalina (10.15). I was wrong. So for a week or two I wasn’t able to see my Reminders items on macOS even if I wanted to upgrade to Catalina. Worse yet, after macOS Catalina came out I checked if I have 32-bit apps installed – which would stop working if I upgraded. Turns out I do have 32-bit apps installed. So now I’m stuck on macOS 10.14 without Reminders but with my software, or I can upgrade to macOS 10.15 to get Reminders working again but lose all my 32-bit software. Apple and especially the Reminders team fucked up big time here. Like, wtf, you can’t offer backwards compatibility for a notes app?