Grats on 26 years! I'm with you just because I can't imagine the mental overhead of having to keep track of individual property after marriage. My husband and I

Grats on 26 years! I'm with you just because I can't imagine the mental overhead of having to keep track of individual property after marriage. My husband and I act as one in all things - and being unified in goals and finances has has given us advantages over our peers in many ways. Marriage is a hard contract to fulfill for some folks, but when it works it is an amazing thing. And it does require those involved to design it to be a lifelong thing. Pre-nups, even if rational, do go counter to that design and it's hard to not think that it would weaken a marriage if that was always in the back of your mind.