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The social acceptance aspect is vanishing in some ways, but certainly not in all. That can be a huge benefit to marriage, especially if some of the less-than-ac
by bradstewart 7y ago
The social acceptance aspect is vanishing in some ways, but certainly not in all. That can be a huge benefit to marriage, especially if some of the less-than-accepting parties are family members.
Yes, the world would be a better place if family always accepted your choice of partner, regardless of marriage. But that's often not the reality we live in due to religious beliefs, cultural norms, etc.
I don't believe everyone should get married. I don't believe there should be any social stigma surrounding marriage--either positive or negative. But I do think it has value.
I'll be the first to admit that I was not expecting marriage to cause any sort of change in my mentality, the way I approached the relationship, or the relationship dynamics in general. But it happened.
I fundamentally believed I was 100% committed and marriage was a waste of time and money. But there was a "voice" in the back of mind always saying "you can just leave if you don't like a thing"; and I didn't recognize it was even there until I got married and it stopped.
- saiya-jin 7y agoThis 1000%. I am an agnostic, yet I accepted to have a church wedding for respect for my future wife. And the whole wedding day has been one of, if not the most amazing day of my life. That caught me utterly by surprise. And same could be said about many other aspects of life together. It made things better between us when I didn't expect they would, not just like that. It brings people closer. I couldn't care less about financial risks, I won't be taking money to the grave and life is damn short. There are far more important things in my life than zealously watching out and calculating cost/benefits.