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> they negotiate longer vacations to travel Does that work? I've tried to negotiate more vacation days with every job offer I've received, and it's never worke

> they negotiate longer vacations to travel Does that work? I've tried to negotiate more vacation days with every job offer I've received, and it's never worked.

paulsutter 7y ago
A friend of mine told his boss “I’m going traveling for three months starting in January. Am I quitting or just taking a leave of absence?”. It worked. To negotiate more vacation days at hiring, you need multiple offers. Then you can tell them “I will accept your offer if it includes six weeks of vacation. Otherwise I’m going to Facebook”. It probably means negotiating a little less hard on pay since you need to focus to get it. But that’s probably fair.
- badfrog 7y ago
  > Then you can tell them “I will accept your offer if it includes six weeks of vacation. Otherwise I’m going to Facebook” I've used that exact line, and they didn't budge, so I went to Facebook. I guess everywhere I've applied is large tech companies. It might work better at smaller firms.
  - paulsutter 7y ago
    Negotiation is never a sure thing. Don’t say it unless you mean it, it can always go either way.
  - lonelappde 7y ago
    Facebook budged, and Facebook is a big tech company.
    - SomeOtherThrow 7y ago
      They won’t ever “budge” all the way up to your actual worth though, you just went from 10% of your worth to 12%.
    - badfrog 7y ago
      Really? I thought they were 21 days for literally everybody. What did you get?
  - wikibob 7y ago
    How much vacation time did you get at Facebook?
    - badfrog 7y ago
      All US employees get 21 days. Not amazing, but it's better than the starting level for many companies.
jessmartin 7y ago
First rule of negotiation is you have to be willing to walk away if you don't get what you ask for. Could be you weren't willing to say "no thanks" if they didn't budge on vacation time.
- giancarlostoro 7y ago
  > First rule of negotiation is you have to be willing to walk away if you don't get what you ask for. Could be you weren't willing to say "no thanks" if they didn't budge on vacation time. Second would be maybe start asking about that when the offer letter comes in. At which point they are invested in you.
tbyehl 7y ago
Coming up on my 4-year anniversary at a company, having just returned from 2 years in a foreign office, I told my Director I'd like a 3rd week of vacation and no more money. Just treat me like I'd been working here an extra year. He got me a $5,000 raise, no extra vacation time. Said that he did his best and he was the type of person I'd absolutely believe. Ever since then, in my mind, a vacation day has to be worth more than $1,000. Simple economics, right? Somehow giving me $5,000 maximizes shareholder value more than giving me 5 extra days off. My next job was more generous with vacation. They used the accrual method with a maximum and there was an extended period where it had become difficult to take time off and they'd stopped putting our PTO balance on our paystubs... so at some point I track down where to find the info and realize I'd lost 10 days of vacation accrual. I about lost my mind and HR couldn't understand why I felt like they'd cheated me out of more than $10,000. Felt trapped in the job forever 'cause eventually I'm earning I think 27 vacation days per year, and 10 to start is pretty typical, maybe 15 if you're lucky... And as much as we might like to think everything is negotiable, reality on the ground is that very little besides salary can be successfully negotiated.
- goatherders 7y ago
  I've negotiated with dozens of people who favor vacation over salary increase and I'm glad to give the extra time off to them. It's definitely negotiable.
  - badfrog 7y ago
    Are you hiring?
braythwayt 7y ago
Nothing is certain, but remember that there's a difference between negotiating "unpaid time off" and "vacation days." A vacation day is a paid thing. Unpaid time off is not. It's all money and productivity in the end, but in many companies it's easier to negotiate unpaid time off, than to negotiate extra vacation days. Even if the money works out the same in the end.
- chrisseaton 7y ago
  I’m not sure these are the universal definitions you think they are. I refer to paid vacation as ‘time off’.
  - lonelappde 7y ago
    The modifier matters Paid time off Unpaid time off Leave of absence Quit and reapply when you get back.
  - braythwayt 7y ago
    And then there’s PTO, which is sometimes “paid time off,” and sometimes “personal time off,” which is also paid: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paid_time_off https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paid_time_off Perhaps it’s best, as another comment suggests, to always include the adjectives “paid” or “unpaid.”
SomeOtherThrow 7y ago
You do have to leave occasionally to have believable leverage. I’ve found that if you announce you’re leaving and will quit if you have to they’re much more amenable.
boulos 7y ago
Fwiw, Google allows for unpaid time off of less than 30 days. Your salary stops during that time, but benefits and so on stay on, which is nice rather than going into "Ugh, need to figure out COBRA". Google also has up to 5 weeks paid vacation in the US, starting at 3 weeks when you join. After 3 years, you move to 4 weeks, and after 5 years you max out at 5. Other countries basically have their government mandated time off rules, but 5 weeks plus unpaid plus holidays is pretty good. Each week of unpaid time is thus about 2% of salary. That said, I'm definitely in the minority in using unpaid time off (though, even more strange for me is how many colleagues let their vacation accrual reach the maximum and even forfeit days...).

> they negotiate longer vacations to travel Does that work? I've tried to negotiate more vacation days with every job offer I've received, and it's never worked.

paulsutter 7y ago

A friend of mine told his boss “I’m going traveling for three months starting in January. Am I quitting or just taking a leave of absence?”. It worked. To negotiate more vacation days at hiring, you need multiple offers. Then you can tell them “I will accept your offer if it includes six weeks of vacation. Otherwise I’m going to Facebook”. It probably means negotiating a little less hard on pay since you need to focus to get it. But that’s probably fair.

badfrog 7y ago
> Then you can tell them “I will accept your offer if it includes six weeks of vacation. Otherwise I’m going to Facebook” I've used that exact line, and they didn't budge, so I went to Facebook. I guess everywhere I've applied is large tech companies. It might work better at smaller firms.
- paulsutter 7y ago
  Negotiation is never a sure thing. Don’t say it unless you mean it, it can always go either way.
- lonelappde 7y ago
  Facebook budged, and Facebook is a big tech company.
  - SomeOtherThrow 7y ago
    They won’t ever “budge” all the way up to your actual worth though, you just went from 10% of your worth to 12%.
  - badfrog 7y ago
    Really? I thought they were 21 days for literally everybody. What did you get?
- wikibob 7y ago
  How much vacation time did you get at Facebook?
  - badfrog 7y ago
    All US employees get 21 days. Not amazing, but it's better than the starting level for many companies.

jessmartin 7y ago

First rule of negotiation is you have to be willing to walk away if you don't get what you ask for. Could be you weren't willing to say "no thanks" if they didn't budge on vacation time.

giancarlostoro 7y ago
> First rule of negotiation is you have to be willing to walk away if you don't get what you ask for. Could be you weren't willing to say "no thanks" if they didn't budge on vacation time. Second would be maybe start asking about that when the offer letter comes in. At which point they are invested in you.

tbyehl 7y ago

Coming up on my 4-year anniversary at a company, having just returned from 2 years in a foreign office, I told my Director I'd like a 3rd week of vacation and no more money. Just treat me like I'd been working here an extra year. He got me a $5,000 raise, no extra vacation time. Said that he did his best and he was the type of person I'd absolutely believe. Ever since then, in my mind, a vacation day has to be worth more than $1,000. Simple economics, right? Somehow giving me $5,000 maximizes shareholder value more than giving me 5 extra days off. My next job was more generous with vacation. They used the accrual method with a maximum and there was an extended period where it had become difficult to take time off and they'd stopped putting our PTO balance on our paystubs... so at some point I track down where to find the info and realize I'd lost 10 days of vacation accrual. I about lost my mind and HR couldn't understand why I felt like they'd cheated me out of more than $10,000. Felt trapped in the job forever 'cause eventually I'm earning I think 27 vacation days per year, and 10 to start is pretty typical, maybe 15 if you're lucky... And as much as we might like to think everything is negotiable, reality on the ground is that very little besides salary can be successfully negotiated.

goatherders 7y ago
I've negotiated with dozens of people who favor vacation over salary increase and I'm glad to give the extra time off to them. It's definitely negotiable.
- badfrog 7y ago
  Are you hiring?

braythwayt 7y ago

Nothing is certain, but remember that there's a difference between negotiating "unpaid time off" and "vacation days." A vacation day is a paid thing. Unpaid time off is not. It's all money and productivity in the end, but in many companies it's easier to negotiate unpaid time off, than to negotiate extra vacation days. Even if the money works out the same in the end.

chrisseaton 7y ago
I’m not sure these are the universal definitions you think they are. I refer to paid vacation as ‘time off’.
- lonelappde 7y ago
  The modifier matters Paid time off Unpaid time off Leave of absence Quit and reapply when you get back.
- braythwayt 7y ago
  And then there’s PTO, which is sometimes “paid time off,” and sometimes “personal time off,” which is also paid: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paid_time_off https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paid_time_off Perhaps it’s best, as another comment suggests, to always include the adjectives “paid” or “unpaid.”

SomeOtherThrow 7y ago

You do have to leave occasionally to have believable leverage. I’ve found that if you announce you’re leaving and will quit if you have to they’re much more amenable.

boulos 7y ago

Fwiw, Google allows for unpaid time off of less than 30 days. Your salary stops during that time, but benefits and so on stay on, which is nice rather than going into "Ugh, need to figure out COBRA". Google also has up to 5 weeks paid vacation in the US, starting at 3 weeks when you join. After 3 years, you move to 4 weeks, and after 5 years you max out at 5. Other countries basically have their government mandated time off rules, but 5 weeks plus unpaid plus holidays is pretty good. Each week of unpaid time is thus about 2% of salary. That said, I'm definitely in the minority in using unpaid time off (though, even more strange for me is how many colleagues let their vacation accrual reach the maximum and even forfeit days...).