>A school system that requires extensive parental help is bad system. Although I think I agree with the thrust of this (children need independence), I suspect

>A school system that requires extensive parental help is bad system. Although I think I agree with the thrust of this (children need independence), I suspect the original intent was not so much direct help as cultivating an environment conducive to independent success. Like the difference between trying to grow a flower and trying to build a flower. Of course, children eventually also need to be able to do this independently, but speaking for myself at least I didn't really appreciate this facet of education (nor was I in a position to do it for myself) in middle school.