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Ask HN: What skills do you think are necessary to succeed in life?
Assume success = happiness, fun, excitement.
Skills like not being afraid of doing small things, working without distractions when needed, knowing what you want and what you don't want, etc.
What would you want to go back and teach yourself?
- elliottcarlson 16y agoThe most important skills I can think of: Curiosity - Never be afraid to learn how something works, whether it's some new programming language or a specific law or why Pop-Rocks fizz - be curious as it will make learning new things a lot more entertaining. Speak Up - Learn how to speak up when necessary, whether it requires being assertive to put people in to place, or showing someone what you are capable of and something you have knowledge in - don't be afraid to speak your mind. Patience - this is a very important trait - you will need it when trying to learn something new, or if you are in a position of mentoring someone. You need to understand it takes time to get things right. Greed - yep, I'll say it - you need a certain level greed (not just with money but also in accomplishments) - not because it's a good thing in the grand scheme of things, but it can also act as a motivator to your success in life; at the same time don't let greed get the best of you and be humble about everything - even if it's a facade at times.
- kevinstubbs 16y agoI think the 4 most important skills are: Curiosity - I agree with yours Time Alone - You learn best alone, you work best alone, and you are most creative alone. Being with friends and family for me is a release from this pressure to avoid burnout. Perfectionism - Just look at what Steve Jobs has done with a certain level of this. Your work will always absolutely be the best possible. Competetiveness - You should WANT to be the best at everything you do. This will be what motivates you to spend that time alone pouring over new material, working through a hard problem. This will make you become a perfectionist if you aren't one because the perfect creations will be the best. I feel this is the most important skill to have because it enforces many other traits all at once.
- jacques_chester 16y ago1. Enemy crushing. 2. Forward-before driving of enemies. 3. Ability to hear and enjoy the lamentations of enemy women.
- mahmud 16y agoelementary, really, for anyone raised in the Mongolian steppes who has a raid or two under his belt.
- michaelty 16y agoA soft voice and a steady hand.
- klbarry 16y agopersistence, persistence, persistence
- intended 16y agoCouldn't agree more. Falling down is a given, getting back up and trying again to improve is what matters. (Yes qualifications abound and various other qualities are needed as well)
- ramonRecuero 16y ago1. Luck 2. Intelligence 3. Persistence Like they say in match point: The man who said "I'd rather be lucky than good" saw deeply into life. People are afraid to face how great a part of life is dependent on luck. It's scary to think so much is out of one's control. There are moments in a match when the ball hits the top of the net, and for a split second, it can either go forward or fall back. With a little luck, it goes forward, and you win. Or maybe it doesn't, and you lose.
- grandalf 16y agopassion, tenacity, and irreverence
- pramit 16y agoBeing thankful for what you already have.
- booduh 16y agoDon't kill yourself.
- guynamedloren 16y agoThe ability to follow rules, unless of course you're the one making the rules. Picking up what I'm putting down?
- rguzman 16y agoAn effective theory of change. http://www.aaronsw.com/weblog/theoryofchange http://www.aaronsw.com/weblog/theoryofchange I'd say IQ, but that isn't a skill, now is it?
- revorad 16y agohttp://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2106553 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2106553
- mswen 16y ago1. Set goals but stay flexible and open to the unexpected opportunity or barrier. 2. Find ways to slow down, be in the moment and enjoy life's pleasures 3. Do some hard things - don't always take the easy road 4. Take some risks - failure doesn't have to crush you 5. Actively and deeply love a few people 6. Be generous 7. Be curious and keep learning 8. Commit to something bigger than yourself 9. Recognize the contributions of others and express thanks 10. Find or create good teams.
- anthonycerra 16y agoBe confident. There are plenty of people ready to tell you why you're wrong/crazy/stupid/naive and that will eat away at your confidence. At the end of the day you have to make your own decisions. Don't give up because someone else doesn't have the balls to start. Surround yourself with people you admire and drop those who hold you back. This is tough because many of the friends we make over the years can be toxic for our growth. Many people hate change. They'll see you start to improve and things will get weird between you. Don't let them pull you back down. If they don't want to grow with you, say goodbye. Identify what makes you uncomfortable and do more of it. Not much of a talker? Start going to every meetup you can. Afraid of crowds? Start giving talks and presentations. There is a great blog by Mixergy guest Todd Smith called Little Things Matter. Google it, it's great.
- Mz 16y agoLearn how to lose your baggage and debug yourself.