> and would have chosen my words more carefully if I'd known the author was here in the thread Not a specific dig against you, but I find it useful to write (a

> and would have chosen my words more carefully if I'd known the author was here in the thread Not a specific dig against you, but I find it useful to write (and say) anything with the assumption that the author I'm (hypothetically) addressing is a direct witness. It really helps with online civility :)